The Hugs at Goodbye

After attending a networking session to learn more about community partners and their needs, Benjamin decided he wanted to spend more time volunteering with seniors.

Instead of doing a one-off visit, we tried something SmolBoss had not done before: returning to the same sheltered home for seniors for several weeks in a row.

Each week, Benjamin went to the home after school, right after a quick lunch. From the first session, he dived right in. He helped with craft activities, joined the seniors in exercises, and slowly became a familiar face in the room.

The seniors loved him. They asked if he would come back again.

And he did.

They kept praising him too.

At first, Benjamin felt embarrassed. He was still young, and all the attention made him a little shy. But in their own gentle way, the seniors were also supporting him. Their words gave him confidence. Their smiles made him feel welcomed. Their encouragement helped him realise that volunteering was not one-sided.

He was there to support the seniors. But the seniors were supporting him too.

Over the next few weeks, Benjamin kept showing up. By then, the same group of seniors had already interacted with him several times. The home no longer felt like a place he was simply visiting. It became a space he felt comfortable in.

He played at the garden swings, hung out with the seniors, and helped whenever he could.

There was one week when Benjamin fell sick and could not make it. We still went to the home, but the seniors quickly noticed.

“Where is Benjamin?”

“Will he come again?”

That moment showed us something important. When children show up consistently, relationships begin to form. The seniors were not just remembering an activity. They were remembering him.

In the following weeks, Benjamin returned again. By the last session, he stood near the door giving out small gifts and saying goodbye.

Then the seniors began taking turns to hug him.

To them, it might have been the last time they would see him. That moment said everything.

Sometimes, volunteering is not about doing something big. Sometimes, it is about being present, coming back, and letting people know they are remembered.

For Benjamin, this was more than a volunteering experience.

It was a lesson in consistency, connection, and care.

At SmolBoss, we hope children learn that they do not need to wait until they are older to contribute meaningfully. Even small acts can become deeply meaningful when they are done with sincerity, respect, and commitment.

And sometimes, the impact of showing up is felt most clearly in a hug goodbye.


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